186 Second Date Questions

Meeting up again can simultaneously be thrilling and daunting, so I’ve curated this handy list of questions to ask on a second date.

If you want to keep it light, here are my funny first-date questions!

Or, the complete list of GTQ’s conversation starters created by me.

Quick Second Date Questions

1. How are you feeling?

2. Are you an outdoor kind of person?

3. How are you enjoying your food/this activity?

4. Are you a good driver?

5. Do you like to dance?

6. Do you like your colleagues?

7. Are you afraid of heights?

8. Do you like sushi?

9. Do you play video games?

10. Do you like going to concerts?

11. Do you like kids?

12. Do you like surprises?

13. Are you a generally calm person?

14. Have you broken a bone before?

15. Do you like to snuggle while watching a movie?

16. Want to watch a movie?

17. Do you have any pets?

18. Were you surprised I replied to your message?

19. Do you enjoy reading?

20. Do you get up early in the morning?

21. Do you like the beach?

22. Do you bake?

23. Do you enjoy camping?

24. Do you post a lot on social media?

25. Do you enjoy spicy food? 

26. Do you like going on adventures?

27. Would you go bungee jumping?

28. Do you like winter?

29. Is family important to you?

Clean Second Date Questions

31. Do you have any hobbies?

32. Where was your last vacation?

33. Do you have any brothers or sisters?

34. What does your perfect morning look like?

35. Do you like your job?

36. What is something you are hoping to try in the future?

37. What do you like to do with your free time?

38. How long have you lived in this town, and what keeps you here?

39. What does a weekend look like for you?

40. What time do you go to bed at night?

41. Do you like to watch documentaries?

42. Do you like to play board games?

43. Have you ever been star-struck?

44. Do you wash your bed sheets regularly?

45. What is something you value the most in another person?

46. What is a household chore that you dread doing?

47. What is something that makes you feel unstoppable?

48. Do you think you are a courageous person?

49. Do you have any bad habits?

50. Have your friends given you any nicknames?

51. Do you speak kindly to yourself?

52. What is your favorite food?

53. What is your favorite dessert?

54. Do you enjoy celebrating your birthday?

55. Have you read any books that changed your perspective on life?

56. How old were you when you first drove a car?

57. Do you think you are a generally positive person?

59. Would you eat something really gross for a large sum of money?

60. What’s your bedtime routine?

61. Have you watched any good movies lately?

Check out our list of romantic questions for couples. 

Funny Second Date Questions

62. What cartoon character would you be?

63. What TV show would you be embarrassed to admit you you watch?

64. Have you tried to touch your nose with your tongue?

65. Do you play truth or dare?

66. Have you called someone you were dating by the wrong name?

67. What would you take if you had to evacuate your home and could only grab three things?

68. What is something useless in your house that you love?

69. What do you dislike for no real reason?

70. If you could be a fly on the wall, what wall would you land on?

71. Have you made up a word and used it in a sentence before?

72. If you could make a new law, what would it be, and what would the punishment be for breaking it?

73. Do you like any weird food combinations?

74. Is there a movie that makes you laugh whenever you see it?

75. What would be the worst buy-one-get-one-free deal?

76. Do you sing in the shower?

77. What is the worst fashion choice you have ever made?

78.  Have you cut your own hair before?

79. Do you take tests online? If yes, what was the funniest one you took?

80. Do you think AI will take over?

81. Have you ever peed in the closet?

82. Can you rub your head and pat your tummy?

83. When was the last walk of shame?

84. Do you have any strange food aversions?

85. Bad breath or cheesy feet?

86. Do you get hangry?

87. Can you sing the alphabet backward?

88. Do you know the ‘’Baby Shark’’ song?

89. Is there a fashion trend you can’t get enough of?

90. Have you gotten so drunk at a party that you passed out there?

Serious Second Date Questions

91. Do you have any kids?

92. Do you have any deal breakers?

93. How do you calm down when you are angry?

94. What is something that people do that you think makes them look smart?

95. What is something you are grateful for in your life?

96. Do you think your friends would like me?

97. Do you think your parents would like me?

98. Have you ever witnessed a crime?

99. What are your long-term goals?

100. Do you see yourself settling down into a relationship?

101. What is your relationship with your parents like?

102. Why did your last relationship end?

103. Do you smoke?

104. Do you drink?

105. What are three things you don’t like in a partner?

106. If you had an extra three hours in the day, what would you spend it doing?

107. What is a big goal you want to accomplish within the year?

108. What is a significant accomplishment of yours?

109. What is something that really bothers you?

110. How do you hope people will remember you after you are gone?

111. What is something that brings joy to your day-to-day life?

112. Do you take time to take care of yourself every day?

113. What is something that will automatically make you stop trying when it comes to dating someone?

114. What are your thoughts on self-checkouts?

115. Where is somewhere you go if you want to treat yourself?

116. Have you been treated badly in past relationships?

117. What is something terrible that someone has said to you?

118. Have you had anyone close to you pass away?

119. Have you been in a car accident?

120. Have you lived with a partner before?

121. Do you want to get married one day?

122. What is your career goal?

123. What is something that irritates you?

124. Have you ever been addicted to anything?

125. Have you been married?

126. Have you proposed to anyone before?

127. What was your longest relationship?

128. Do you like to joke around, or are you a more serious person?

129. Do you tend to laugh in awkward situations?

130. What is the most genuine compliment you have received?

Second Date Questions to Ask a Man

132. Have you been in love before?

133. How do you act when you are angry?

134. Do you pick up after yourself?

135. Have you left a party before to go home and be by yourself?

136. If money wasn’t an issue, what is something over-the-top ridiculous that you would buy for yourself?

137. Have you ever daydreamed about being a superhero?

138. What movie have you seen that has had a significant impact on you?

139. Where did you grow up?

140. Have you been in any long-term relationships?

141. What would you choose if you could have any type of animal for a pet?

142. What are your feelings about public displays of affection?

143. Do you forgive people easily?

144. Do you love a good thunderstorm?

145. If you could peek into your future, would you?

146. Do you have any irrational fears?

147. Do you have a safe space for when you feel overwhelmed?

148. Do you set New Year’s resolutions?

149. How long ago was your last good cry?

150. What is a good memory from your childhood?

151. Did you go through a period where you went to the bar every chance you got?

152. Do you have a happy place?

153. Do you have any hidden talents?

154. Do you believe in any conspiracy theories?

155. Do you have a pair of shoes you like wearing?

156. Are you close with your parents?

157. How do you like your coffee?

158. Do you use a daily planner?

Try next: Open-ended questions to ask a guy.

Second Date Questions to Ask a Woman

159. Do you take your health seriously?

160. Is there somewhere you go when you need to be alone?

161. What is a movie that you felt resonated with you?

162. Do you consider taking time for yourself a priority?

163. How long was your longest relationship?

164. Do you enjoy alone time?

165. Where is somewhere you want to vacation?

166. Do you have a mentor?

167. What is your biggest strength?

168. Are you a tidy person?

169. Have you had your heart broken?

170. How do you solve conflicts in a relationship?

171. Do you believe people deserve second chances?

172. What is your favorite dog breed?

173. What is a big goal you have for yourself?

174. Have you yawned during a date before?

175. What is your biggest guilty pleasure?

176. Do you struggle to let go of things?

177. What is your most prized possession?

178. When did you last have a good laugh?

179. What is a store you enjoy shopping in?

180. Do you dress up for Halloween?

181. Do you like to throw parties?

182. What is something that you have always wanted to try?

183. Have you swam in the ocean?

184. Do you collect anything?

185. What is on your nightstand?

186. What is your best vacation?

For added fun, you may want to pair this up with our list of yes or no questions designed for girls.

Final Thoughts

We hope you had a blast reviewing our second-date conversation topics list.

If you use any of these questions, we’d love to hear which one sparked the most interesting discussion for you. Feel free to comment and let us know!